ID: From a Comrade posted:

"In the coming year, things will pop off. When they do, someone will volunteer to do security. They will possibly show up with a lot of battle rattle and a take-charge, can-do attitude.

Do not let them do security. Ask them to read some bell hooks. Ask them how many women they know trust them. Ask them to do some reproductive labor first, like working in a kitchen. Talk to them in depth about political theory. Understand their motivations and their relationship to violence and power.

Over half of people who want to do security, are people who should never do security. The biggest red flag for weeding out bad security people, is that they are eager to do security."

  • ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.comOPEnglish
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    7 hours ago

    Wow.

    I only know they’re lying because I know other women who know them.

    And I know, like many other women and non-binary people (including the ones whose knowledge and experience you’re relying on, while refusing to acknowledge it has any value), from a lifetime of lived personal experience.

    The question I gave as an example is meant to reveal whether they respect women as human beings, not a memory test.

    Well it won’t reveal that, and anyone who even half notices celebrity news will be able to pull a couple of names out of their ass, so it is nothing but a memory test.

    Communication with you has been difficult. Please try to understand me. I intend to be friendly with you.

    First off, fuck you and your tone policing.

    I understand you perfectly I just think you’re wrong, and the fact that you’re framing that as me being “difficult” is problematic on so many fucking levels, including being classic misogyny.

    Second of all, maybe if you’d have invested a tenth (or any!) of the time and energy you have arguing with me, trying to fix something that no one asked you to fix and that more importantly and demonstrably doesn’t need fixing, in to addressing and calling out the men in this thread who prove exactly just how effective the original question is, I might have a little more patience for your noise.

    But all you’re doing is proving that you are incapable of, at the very fucking least, shutting up and listening to the people directly impacted by misogyny, instead of talking over us for the sake of being “right” (even when you’re really not).

    Kind of like:

    They will possibly show up with a lot of battle rattle and a take-charge, can-do attitude.

    🤔

    I should have trusted my gut all the way back at your “not like other men” spiel…

    I hope you take this as an opportunity to self reflect, recognise your problematic behaviour, and do better, but I won’t be holding my breath nor sticking around to find out, I’m done wasting my time and energy here.