the term “cake day” just makes me think of r*ddit. I’ve seen Lemon Day going around, but we probably want to avoid affiliation with lemon party.

not that we can tell anybody what to do anyway, and each instance could even have its own. anyway, it needs to be something that obviously means “anniversary” and doesn’t require explanation otherwise it’ll just be annoying

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      so if someone asks a question you literally cannot say that it doesn’t matter, because in saying so you’ll have formed an opinion on it? that’s ridiculous.

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        2 months ago

        you just gave the definition of having an opinion. I don’t know who you should be angry at about that but it certainly isn’t me

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          I’m not sure you’re understanding what I’m saying. but more importantly I’m not sure you’re understanding what you’re saying.

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            all I see is somebody still having a conversation 11 hours later about how little they have an opinion on something

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              yeah, we’re not talking about my opinion are we, we’re talking about your weird response.

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                  2 months ago

                  where you will explain your logic. so in your opinion, if someone asks a question, your answer can never be “it doesn’t matter”, is that it?

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                    you’re acting like you just started with “it doesn’t matter”. that’s not where we started. you walked in here telling people to “be normal”, so you opened with a factually incorrect statement followed by condescension.

                    your answer can be whatever you want it to be. but if you proclaim “i don’t care” & then continue to engage on the topic, including doing additional research, for the next 14 hours, people are going to notice that you do actually care.