here’s the thing: everyone complains about late capitalism and how alienated and isolated we all are. everyone acknowledges this, and reassures each other of this, alone.
you need to get out of yourself, and your head, and your small bubble of one, and you need to go see old friends, or former friends, or people in your social circle who are just meh, or your annoying roommates, or your co-workers, or your former co-workers, or your lame family members, or your lame and bigoted family members, or strangers at a bar, or whomever, and party. meeting people is praxis, strengthening relationships is praxis, making yourself seen and vulnerable to another is praxis. please, guys, go out.
this, here, now, is a facsimile, mediated through a thousand screens. go kiss, go get kissed, go reject a kiss, go be denied a kiss. go out.
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just want to say thanks for this. I’ve been trying to get through a bunch of mental hurdles this past year, including social anxiety, but in the last few months I have been immersed in work and kind of neglected all that. I have a bunch of family I rarely see over for new years, and I kind of lost sight of making the most of it because of some stupid deadline.
Just. Fucking. LOL.
Instead of: “Hey guys NYE was really fun for me, I had a great time in the city with my coworkers and friends, even kissed a few people I liked.”
Its: “BY MY DECREE, CAPITALIST ALIENATION IS A PERSONAL PROBLEM, ITS ALL IN YOUR HEAD BRO JUST GO OUTSIDE.”
Skys the limit for the levels of ridiculous condescension disguised as advice from normie radlibs. Literally like extrapolating: “mentally ill ppl should just think more positively” from a time you were sad and then the weather changed and you became happy. Like good for you bro but fuck off with the sermon.
It’s that Always Sunny bit about putting on a job helmet and getting launched out of a job cannon into JobLand, socialization edition.
It’s abrasive and condescending, and as someone that has enough socialization and outside time to be happy, I can still see that.
This persons condescension is ironically a symptom of capitalist alienation, a combination of being so far removed from the real situations and lives of others that you think your ineffectual platitudes are the word of god and not knowing how to sincerely relate to others about having a good experience other than talking at/down to them.
Speaking of capitalist alienation, I’ve had plenty of exchanges with that user, and most of them concluded with “touch grass” and related thought terminating cliches, all in defense of some treat or another.
The framing of the “advice” is structurally sus, too: agreement is presented as synonymous with compliance, with the implication that disagreement is a personal failing.
