So sex ed was really bad where I’m from and I’ve had to figure a lot of shit out by trial and error. I’ve been enjoying experimenting with anal for a while now but I’ve reached a point where, after a longer session with one of my larger toys, there’s sometimes a little blood. Never like flowing blood just when I pass the excess lube afterwards it’s comes out pink. This has happened a few times but I don’t feel any lasting effects. My bowel movements afterward have been fine. Should I be worried about this? Is any blood too much or am I fine?

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    3 months ago

    More (gradual) stretching, going more gently especially during warmup, using more lube, switching to a better lube, reapplying lube if it’s waterbased (essentially it should be waterbasedif you’re using most toys) and you haven’t reapplied for a while - any of these might be a solution.

    There’s nothing much to worry about and it’s not uncommon. It’s likely just because of a very minor skin tear.

    As the person below mentioned, it could be a haemorrhoid. You can have a small painless one that are internal that you wouldn’t be able to notice without a doctor inspecting it. Again, nothing much to worry about and not uncommon.

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        Swiss Navy (silicone based, so no go with most toys, but I was able to take a girthy 10" ez) is good in my experience. And good clean love lube(green bottle), and I’ve been using Vaseline soothing hydration when I ran out. It doesn’t explicitly say I shouldn’t, but it’s probably not going to be a long term use kinda thing. But it glides weeeelllll

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    3 months ago

    Prolly just micro tears, just be careful, go slower. Maybe take a hot shower to relax the body more. Eventually you’ll get to a point where your hole will gobble it up ezpz. Atleast for me. Mines only like 9" and like a lil smaller than my wrist around though. You could be trying to shove an anatomically correct horse dong in you for all I know though. Happy hole stretches I guess, be careful plz.

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    3 months ago

    usually nothing to worry about and can come with the territory of bigger toys. only reason to be concerned is if it persisted for a week or more. take a few days off and keep ur butt clean and you’ll be fine

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      Kinda curious as to what that feels like? Like does it just happen whenever now, how could you tell you were prolapsing at first,can you trigger it when you need to reliably, can you prevent it from prolapsing or is that a product of getting the anus sufficiently loose/relaxed?