Got back from family vacation, got on the dreaded Facebook, found out the woman who was my first gf 12 years ago, and subsequently a friend I talked to pretty frequently, had died of liver failure at 33 years old.

Looking back on it, when she was drinking 12 years ago it just seemed like a fun time. I didn’t know she sustained that pace for a decade plus. Some other things took a toll too, like an eating disorder.

Anyways, I am fuckin sad, fuck alcohol, it’s as bad as heroin but capitalism gotta make that $$$$$

  • kleeon [he/him, he/him]@hexbear.net
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    4 months ago

    Typically they get defensive about their own habit after you say “no thanks”

    this feels very similar to how people often perceive it as a personal attack when someone at the table says they’re vegan