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  • magi [null/void]@hexbear.netM
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    7 months ago

    I got bullied for having long hair, very pale skin and accused of wearing makeup so I got called gay. Even when my body was clearly not shaped like a cis male I was still called gay…

    Those people had no idea of trans people just I was known to them as being a cis male.

    Living amongst the ignorant and people who don’t understand anything outside the binary they will usually default to traits they associate with a binary gender and assume or try to insult… Depends on how it is being applied.

    It happens to cis people a lot too. Because the hunan body can take many shapes and forms.

    • QueerCommie [she/her, fae/faer]@hexbear.net
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      7 months ago

      Indeed, without any overt transphobia I still find most people default to he/hims bc as far as they can get through their heads I am. Reminding people to respect pronouns is scary, however openly and overtly abnormal I am.

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        7 months ago

        Then it wasn’t transphobia, can guarantee that… It was queer phobia

        A lot is presentation dependant in a lot of cases and is what a lot of people would default to.

        I’m gendered as a she/her regularly but I dress androgynous now…

          • magi [null/void]@hexbear.netM
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            7 months ago

            But in my example I can say it isn’t because trans wasn’t as mainstream then from where I come from more underground ^^ I would say in today’s climate it most certainly could be.