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  • ashinadash [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    4 months ago

    “Am I really trans?”

    Yes! Congratulations!

    “I just look like a guy”

    Irrelevant, although you can always do something about it if you wish

    “I think in being self indulgent and stupid”

    If this qualifies as self indulgent and stupid, be self indulgent and stupid. I don’t wanna be anything else

    I was enjoying vibing in skirts and being dorlypilled.

    • statements dreamed up by the utterly cisgender trans-heart
    • Wake [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.netM
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      Yes! Congratulations!

      bridget-vibe

      Irrelevant, although you can always do something about it if you wish

      I’ve already decided I’m going to be so fucking cute. Even if my brain occasionally tries to convince me otherwise.

      If this qualifies as self indulgent and stupid, be self indulgent and stupid. I don’t wanna be anything else

      geordi-no Boy-mode/girl-mode

      geordi-yes Hedonism-mode

      statements dreamed up by the utterly cisgender

      No one is CIS except for me. I am the one true CIS.

      For real though, I know I’m trans. My brain is just an asshole sometimes. These feelings will pass, they always do. They just suck while I’m in the middle of them. I do feel much more transy today vs yesterday. So I think I’m already passed the worst of it. cat-trans

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        I’ve already decided I’m going to be so fucking cute.

        Absolutely based as hell bridget-yoyo-walk I love to see it, also hedonism-mode gang.

        Yeah I would say you’re doin good, which slaps. Grats on getting past the worst of it cat-trans I do wonder what coping strategies & etc would be useful for dealing with those feelings in the moment since lots of people get em…

        • Wake [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.netM
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          I don’t know if my coping strategies will work for others. But for me the most important thing I do is simply remind myself how far I’ve come. Egg broke 6 months ago, started coming out to everyone pretty much immediately after, started therapy, started hrt. I wouldn’t have done those things if I was The One True CIS™. And every single one of those steps made my life exponentially better than the one before. Before my egg broke, I was on a dark path. Every step I take now brings me farther and farther into the light. Being seen can be scary sometimes if your not used to it, but it’s so worth it. cat-trans

      • 🏳️‍⚧️ 新星 [she/they]@lemmygrad.ml
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        enjoying vibing in skirts and being dorlypilled.

        I wonder if anywhere sells Dorley Hall mugs — a lot of those would legitimately be funny in-jokes outside of the hall too.

        Even if my brain occasionally tries to convince me otherwise.

        Your brain has been temporarily been banned from Hexbear for transphobia. If your brain has been infected with dysphoria, please take gender euphoria pills immediately to kill it.

        giant estrogen pill the size of a hand

        • Wake [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.netM
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          I would absolutely buy a dorly mug. Some of those are hilarious. I don’t think anyone would get it but I would and that’d be enough. I suppose I could just have one made. soviet-hmm