Legit. I’m agender, but also accept the non-binary and trans labels. It’s like an Euler diagram of concentric circles for me, though I understand others see the overlaps differently.

I’m not likely to go on hormones or change my gender presentation. I like my body. It’s practical and my clothes fit it. I also hate clothes shopping, so getting a whole new wardrobe for a body whose shape I’m uncertain of sounds like a nightmare. I have enough problems bra shopping.

I am changing my name to be less gendered, and that feels right. I also use they/she at work, and advocate for trans issues when they come up.