Ugghh I feel like a complete bitch posting this but I can’t be alone in this. I know somebody who has completely subscribed to SNL and I can now see it in her posts. She has become very similar to her in how she posts what she is talking about the whole “woe is me” attitude. Anyways they just reposted today’s post saying how beautiful it was and all this shit and now I am having a hard time not being disgusted with this person and I really want to unfollow them. (I went to point out too I have NOTHING against people speaking out about their mental health issues and what not but when it starts to feel like they are only talking about it to justify their behaviours and almost get sympathy it becomes super cringy for me. One can talk about it but I don’t need to hear all about what your therapist, midwife, doctor said or see pictures of your crying about something)

Has anybody else had this? Sorry for the rant, I might just be PMS bitchy today

  • Spicykitty@lemmy.ca
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    5 months ago

    I personally disagree about her being a good human. Because she has had countless people point out all of the harm she causes. To her audience (under the guise of help), to her children and the younger generation with the editing, to her children by exploiting them, to those she plagiarized from. Her response is to silence and gaslight. That’s not how good humans typically respond to being informed that they have caused harm. And she purposely surrounds herself with people who won’t hold her accountable.

    I won’t go as far as to necessarily say she’s a bad human…but she sure has behaved like one. She’s caused a lot of harm and her response to attempts to hold her accountable have been concerning. I haven’t seen much, if anything, from her that would indicate she’s a good person. She just pretends to be one when it’s convenient but doesn’t seem to actually do the work or take the responsibility of having a platform that size seriously. She’s caused a ton of harm and doesn’t give a fuck. Just wants to shut people up about it.