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  • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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    52 months ago

    I guess that makes sense, especially if you’ve been on hrt for a while.

    I know a girl who is pre HRT and calls that part her clit when she talks about herself and a girldick when talking about mine, just because that’s the labels we’re using for ourselves and are comfortable with. There’s no universal nomenclature for this stuff, people go with different terms depending on what they’re comfortable with and self ID just comes first. Labels aren’t universal. We create this language for ourselves, to talk about things cissies have no words for, and want us to have no words for, and that means the use of queer labels is always something highly personal and subjective. In case of doubt, it’s better to simply ask.

    • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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      52 months ago

      self ID just comes first

      It kind of hurts me that I’m a trans person who doesn’t get this.

      We create this language for ourselves, to talk about things cissies have no words for, and want us to have no words for, and that means the use of queer labels is always something highly personal and subjective.

      This is very touching to me