• @MindTraveller@lemmy.ca
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    18 days ago

    They’re supposed to date someone who can take it, if they need to date. But dating someone who can’t handle it is abuse.

    • @shneancy@lemmy.world
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      418 days ago

      “if they need to date” bruh

      then the person who “can’t take it” has the responsibility of communicating it. Simply existing and having issues next to someone else is not fucking abuse. Why are you using that word so lightly

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        18 days ago

        Because I’ve been abused by people who were like this. It escalated. I had PTSD so bad I couldn’t work a full time job.