• @exanime
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    1317 days ago

    I think it’s because they so often are … It’s becoming a stereotype now

    • Flying Squid
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      617 days ago

      I think they so often are claimed to be. How many actually are? Have there been some? Yes. Do we actually know how many? Even a rough estimate?

        • Flying Squid
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          216 days ago

          18 people vs. every single person who says anything homophobic that gets reported on the news since people always claim that person is closeted.

          Which is my point.

      • @exanime
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        117 days ago

        I think they so often are claimed to be

        They portrait themselves as raging homophobics just to then pretend to be gay? I don’t follow

        • Flying Squid
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          417 days ago

          I think that other people often make the claim that homophobes are secretly gay and I’m asking if we actually know how many, even based on a rough estimate, that applies to. If not, it’s a spurious and rather disturbing claim.

          • @exanime
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            17 days ago

            This is exactly how stereotypes work. And no, they should not be taking super seriously even if they do tend to come from some real life examples

            Personally, I am not super concerned if claims against homophobes are spurious, they do not seem to mind claiming gay people are pedophiles in disguise for example

            • Flying Squid
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              317 days ago

              But as I said, it suggests that queer people are the homophobes. That’s my issue. It lessens the bigotry issue if the implication is that cishet people aren’t the ones being homophobic.

              • @exanime
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                017 days ago

                Not it doesn’t… some fruits are apples, apples are not all fruit

                Again, I do not know what you are fishing for but I don’t care to follow

                • Flying Squid
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                  416 days ago

                  Yes it does, since every time someone is in the news for being homophobic, people chime in to say they’re in the closet. Every single time.