• @someacnt_@lemmy.world
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        12 months ago

        Because I have hard time ignoring my appearance issues because people bring it up so often. I cannot comprehend being able to ignore those…

        • @Sotuanduso@lemm.ee
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          12 months ago

          Who’s bringing up your appearance issues? Friends? Family? Bullies? Strangers in the street?

          • @someacnt_@lemmy.world
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            22 months ago

            Ofc not families, but social peers and strangers bring these up. I don’t have friends… Maybe so many people are just bullies?

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                2 months ago

                No, I am in graduate program of a university. but it does seem like many of them never grew out of grade school…

                Not that they need to be in this sense. In a competition-driven society, you only need to survive yourself, it is a good option to kick someone else down to go up higher. Idk if such manipulation skills would require the “growing up” part.