didn’t we all grow up needing to be secretive? is it because of the adage of how ‘everyone thinks women are hot’ so like even straight women would get turned on more by their own moaning?

like as a guy i don’t even…have the impulse to involve my voice in it at all

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    This is why lesbians have better sex.
    You have fingers and a mouth, you don’t need to stop fucking all night after you cum.

    • @misophist@lemmy.world
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      As a straight, I wish I had fingers and a mouth. At least I can have multiple orgasms. Suck it, penis-owners!

      • The Barto
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        Suck it, penis-owners!

        Look, if we could we would, but then you’d never see us again.

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        As a straight, I wish I had fingers and a mouth.

        Words cannot describe my confusion.

      • Tywele
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        Trans women with penises can have multiple orgasms.

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        I’ve just realised you all saw the word lesbian and short circuited, deciding everything following that word was supposedly all about lesbians, and not about the dude who says he stops fucking after he cums.

        Bruh. Try rereading my comment this way, it might make it easier for you to parse without your fantasy lesbians distracting you in the first sentence.

        You have fingers and a mouth, you don’t need to stop fucking all night after you cum.
        This is why lesbians have better sex.

        • @Guest_User@lemmy.world
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          Lol calm down it was an off hand joke. Not a great joke and it clearly didn’t land but it certainly wasn’t some grand statement meant to offend

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            I’m not offended? I’m finding this funny. Maybe you shouldn’t be so quick to project your emotions.

            Also I seriously only realised when replying to your comment what the others in this thread were on about by mentioning being straight in response to my comment. Which is why I explained it as it was obviously a parsing error.

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      The problem is more that cumming is the goal for many guys.

      I may won’t last long when penetrating, but we still have fun for hours before and after it.

      And I think that’s a point about how to approach sex, not about sexual identity

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        I’m glad you understand the point i was making.

      • Ataraxia
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        As a woman that sounds fucking exhausting. I finish as soon as I can and am not interested in going for hours. My boyfriend would want to buy I have sleep or snacks or games to get to. Heck, I’m fine not even finishing and I get annoyed he insists I do. Omg I’m so exhausted just thinking about it ugh.

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      Do what? Why would you have to stop for that long? Genuinely asking.

      • OurTragicUniverse
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        Can you rephrase the question? I don’t understand what you’re trying to ask.

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            Ask the man who said he does, that I was replying to.

                • @havokdj@lemmy.world
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                  Yes, I did, and I asked you specifically why you would need to stop fucking after you bust a load

                  • OurTragicUniverse
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                    Ask the man who said he does, that I was replying to.

          • Ataraxia
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            I hate that my bf insists on going longer after I’m done. I don’t like it. I’m done. Hurry up!

            • @havokdj@lemmy.world
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              It’s a mutual thing, some people like going longer, some are one and done.