Harping on people to get married from up in the ivory tower fails to engage with reality of life in the dating trenches.
    • @Coreidan@lemmy.worldEnglish
      -8•8 months ago

      Ya I get it, the article is just about someone who is complaining that they can’t meet a decent guy.

      I guess I just don’t understand the point tho, because I can just write an article too complaining about all the shitty women out there, and then write a title that indicates that the whole reason marriages are dwindling is because of women.

      If you can’t meet a decent guy then chances are you are doing something wrong. That makes you the problem too. Maybe you hang out with the wrong crowd. Maybe you have poor judgement. Could be a lot of reasons, but pinning everything on “men suck” comes off as super disingenuous.

      I am not taking it personally, but just pointing out the fact that it take two to tango, and if it’s not working out for you then MAYBE you need to spend a little extra time on yourself instead of jumping to the blame game. We all have a lot of trouble with self reflection.

      I think this person gets a lot of negative reaction from their personality and they blame others for their failures. That’s how I read the article.

        • @Coreidan@lemmy.worldEnglish
          -5•8 months ago

          What about all the women calling men dumb or whatever insult you want to throw in there?

          Why is it always one sided for you? Do you just prefer playing victim instead? I don’t get it.

          It’s a problem for both sexes. I’m starting to think YOU are the problem.

            • @Coreidan@lemmy.worldEnglish
              -3•8 months ago

              No you’ve literally said it’s all the fault of men.

              You won’t accept any responsibility.

              All men suck. All women are the best. Right? Did I nail your opinion?

              Good talk. This is where you get ghosted.