Way before intersex/nonbinary/trans people were even culturally accepted to exist in the west, I remember a classmate in early grade school that asked me to guess if they were a girl or a boy.

They didn’t ever tell me either way but they were pretty all the same.

That was in the early 80s, right when the HIV/AIDs bigot frenzy was in full swing

I hope they’ve had a good life and are safe and well.